new things to try:

-stay at my house at least 2 days a week.

-cook dinner together (not computer, no tv) at least 2 times a week.

- do something fun cheap and creative together (crafts? painting? bench? projects?) at least once every 2 weeks

-read more and share what we are reading more often.

-go on bike rides to interesting places and have adventures

-plan ahead (legitimately) and take trips (talk about seattle)

-everytime we feel annoyed or pissed off or frustrated, focus on one thing that we truly admire respect and love about to other person.

-share everything with each other. dont close doors.

-dont let necessities (aka work, schedule conflicts, money) get in the way of how we feel about each other. these things are an unfortunate part of life. there is very little you can do about them and should be an accepted part of life.

-spend time away from each other, doing things for ourselves WITHOUT the other person to fulfill our "me time" needs. be understanding of the other persons needs. even when it is inconvenient.

-realize that we argue because we love each other SO much that we care too much about the little things.

-SAY what we mean. and be real with the other person.

-understand that we are 2 COMPLETELY different people and do things and think about things COMPLETELY different from one another. AND recognize that this is OK.

ABOVE ALL.

-focus on each other DAY BY DAY and remember that tomorrow is always a new day with new opportunities and surprises.

-STAY POSITIVE AND TRY TO FIND THE ABSOLUTE BEST in every situation.

i love you.

too long thinking bones are sore

from the too many slow time satisfying long

off off days. My blank arms should be stop and go

legs because my shoes have seen the floor stridden

with people's food, peoples i cant even pay for its,

for strong long barely enough.

and,

if it wont stop

if the never-ending hill is

really never ending, in a never ending kind of way,

then i think i'll make it a little more never ending and enjoy myself.

near probable future

move in to churchill.

save money.

buy an amp and a guitar.

start a band and play shows.

buy more art stuff.

do stencils.

paint more.

go to school.

list for trip

THE SOLID SEVEN

7days

DC

PHILLY

NEW YORK

ATLANTIC CITY

(spend every last dime, skate everything you find, and FILM IT ALL)

my list:

titty bar

paint everything

cheesesteak eating contest

party linbe fo no-comply

race the steps of the rocky statue

try and find the gonz or dill

JD make out with a 40plus

skitch a bus or taxi

barcade

show me your boobs

sleep outside

find a girl who skates, film

trip tattoo

use a fake id

ballintine 40 night

fist pump with a guido

ridulious facial hair

mash ba taco pan pizza

gnarliest drop in

worst slem

get a weave

go to a show crowd surf

donkey show

skate a pool

skate a ditch

punch the naked cowboy

do a trick on roller blades

tug boat graveyard

crash a party using fake personas

midget escort

find something to swim in

get on tall buildings

bootleg shina town

do drugs

trick over road kill

do a trick naked

pound a can of soup

skate a mini

get a tag from earsnot -alife

throw something heavy off of something tall

a mountain is a mammal.

I see the snow falling outside

your window,

quiet and slow,

late at night

and,

i know that i am truly lucky to

lying next to you.

thank you for being you.

i love you.

clayton

ST VALENTINES DAY MASSACRE.

sebadoh.

valentines day girlfriend ideas.

'buy or make a card.

write a non cheesy poem on a sheet of paper.

a treat for oli.

the coupons.

but creative. with a good bow.

crafitly done.

nice.

-ideas for coupons

.good for one free back rub that could lead to other sensual amazing things.

.good for one dinner of your choice AND dish washing afterward.

.good for one day to do WHATEVER you want. within reason.

.good for one veto on anything i want to do and you really don't.

.good for one free city bicycle riding and safety lesson

.good for one time only making shower, wash my hair, condition, brush teeth, etc.

.good for one(many) epically orgasmic sexual experience.

.good for one picnic in a beautiful scenic unique place.

Pedro the lion---
bedhead
hayden
sebadoh
Unwed Sailor
Roadside Monument

elliot smith--
heatmiser